Part of our major focus has been our budget. We are trying to save as much money as we can by doing things ourselves, which also lets us personalize things more than the standard decorations that our banquette hall offers. You'll see a LONG list on the left sidebar of stuff that we are doing ourselves. Here's a quick summary of our long list...
Bouquetes - this is something that I'm not really doing by myself. I'm kind of a freak about flowers... I love them, but I don't love how they wilt and how you just can't be sure that you're going to get the exact color that you're looking for. Since I'm so far away, I've decided that I'm going to use silk flowers instead of real because 1. I can't afford a florist on my budget... there are too many other things that I want to spend our money on, and 2. The silk flowers don't cause NEARLY as much stress. So, I found a great lady who creates beautiful silk bouquetes at an antique shop nearby. I bought the flowers for my bouquete and she's getting the ones for the bridesmaids. I'm sure they will be beautiful.
Boutineers - our boutineers are going to be herbs. We are going to make these the day or two before the wedding. They should be pretty easy... just some herbs and some ribbon and a pin and they'll be done!
Card Box - the card box is a bird cage that my mom's had for years. We are going to spray paint it, put some ribbon on it and TAH DAH, it will be a card box!
Centerpieces - our centerpieces are teapots because that's how J proposed. They are all different and we bought each of them for less than $5 and we are putting hydrangeas in them. We only have a few more teapots until we get to the 40 we need and then we just have to put them all together.
Escort Card Display - We have 2 easels, 4 foam boards, 2 rolls of wrapping paper and lots of rolls of ribbon to make this... hopefully we will have this done in December!
Favors - we are making our own teabags... which are really teabags inside a big teabag. We have to print the little tags for the ends of the string, buy and cut the string and put them together, but they should be very easy to make!
Groom's Cake - J and I both LOVE Rice Krispies and when I saw a picture of a grooms' cake made of them on The Knot, I knew that I wanted to do it! We have our pans and we may test (at least the first couple of layers) the cake at Christmas time. This is going to be a really cool!!!
Guest Book - This is probably one of the crazier things that we are doing. Both J and I have quilts that we just love. His mom is a big quilter and so is my Grandma. I have always loved quilts and once I saw a quilt that a friend from high school did for her baby shower, I was hooked. So, instead of the traditional guestbook, we will have a queen sized quilt for all of our guests to sign!!!
Monogram - this is the first project that we completed! We did this ourselves and printed it and put it inside the front of our wedding binder. Then, I found a place where you could make your own stickers and NOW, we have 1,000 stickers with our monogram on them! I don't know if we'll use it anywhere else, but I think we will have plenty of chances to use our 1,000 stickers.
Out of Towner Packets - I contact the Ft Wayne Visitors Bureau and they were really nice and told me that they would be happy to give me any information and brochures about the city that I'd like, as well as a list of restaurants in the area of our hotel and a bunch of coupons to give to our guests. These should be a really easy project that will hopefully make our guests feel welcome in Ft Wayne!
Photo Share Cards - J and I both have families full of shutterbugs, so we are hoping that we can get people to share their pictures with us and with the other guests. We have created a Snapfish group page and we are going to try to either put the info inside the escort cards, or make business cards with the information.
Pomanders - these are going to be a HUGE HUGE HUGE project. We are planning to make 40 pomanders, 20 green and 20 purple, that we are going to hang on the aisle chairs at the ceremony to add some color to the space. We are currently cutting a BILLION circles out of fabric and eventually we will get around to putting them on the styrofoam balls. Part of me is COMPLETELY overwhelmed by this and the other part of me is SO excited because they are going to be amazing!!!
Programs - these are going to be simple. We are printing them on pretty, light purple paper and folding them in half and handing them out! They are already designed and once we finalize all of our details, they will be ready to print.
Ring Bearer Pillow - This project was my first adventure in sewing machines. J's mom taught me how to use a sewing machine last summer (and now I really want one) and I made the inside of our ring bearer pillow. J's mom covered it with satin and is putting some purple and green ribbon on it, and it's going to look great!
Save the Dates - we didn't do these completely by ourselves. A friend of mine from work who's also getting married found a website for these and I loved them! SO we picked our layout and our colors and had them printed. They are awesome and they gave us extras and envelopes and we just labeled, stamped and sent them out!
Table Numbers - we have not decided how these are going to be done, but they are going to be incorporated into the centerpieces. More to come later...
Veil - again, I didn't really do this myself, but it is homemade. One of the student workers in my department is a fantastic seamstress and she made it for me. It's exactly what I wanted and the less than $30 I spent on the whole thing sure beats what I would have paid at a bridal store!!!
So, that's my complete list... it's a long one and I have a long way to go in less than 8 months, so I guess it's about time I get to work... wish me luck and you can keep up with my progress on the left sidebar where I'll post the finished products!
